Get better at trading smaller and build up your confidence, so that you get momentum moving forward.
Start with trying really hard to make $100 on a trade, because if you can make 100 with one contract, if you do the exact same thing with 10 contracts, you would make $1,000. If you did the exact same thing with 100 contracts, you would make the $10,000 you desire.
If you aren't in a position to make $100 with one. then what makes you think you're ready to make $10,000 with 100?
What you will find is that if you consistently make money, month after month, with a few contracts, you will naturally be inclined to trade with more. You are building positive momentum. This is the way to reach your goals. Get better at trading smaller.